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 for in real life gorean slaves whom are just diving into a deeper gor do you have any recomendations or advice? the bdsm lifestyle has always been my way of life however i am very knew to being a La Kajira

Answer

First of all, be careful.
Being Gorean is no different than the BDSM lifestyle in that Safe, Sane and Consensual still apply when meeting someone new, getting to know them and before committing to a relationship.

I would also suggest learning words and phrases. When using what few Gorean words we know, be sure of the meaning. For instance, la kajira means "I am a slave girl." So, in your original question, the part where you ask "i am very knew to being a La Kajira" makes no sense. What you actually said was "i am very knew to being a I am a slave girl."
Also learn to recognize words that are not Gorean. Words like karta or made up Kassar language words or made up Taluna language words.

If you are physically able, learn Gorean positions. Well, hell, learn them anyway. But learn things like that a slave (almost) always addresses a free person from her knees.

Be careful. There is no doubt those who participate in BDSM activities are sincere. You have to be sincere to delve into fire play, knife play, needle play, encapsulation the violet wand, just to name a few. But with being Gorean, there is no contract. There is no safe word. Being Gorean is Total Power Exchange to the extreme.
It is also possible that you find a Gorean relationship where none of the BDSM activities mentioned above are included. Gorean and BDSM are not the same thing.

And lastly, be careful.






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